Client Case

Presenting Issues

The couple, married for 10 years, sought counseling to address ongoing conflicts and communication breakdowns that were negatively impacting their relationship and family dynamics.

Background Information

The couple reported frequent arguments, a lack of emotional connection, and difficulty resolving conflicts. Both partners expressed feelings of frustration and resentment, which had led to a decrease in intimacy and mutual support. They wanted to break the cycle of negative interactions and rebuild their relationship.

Assessment

The initial assessment included joint and individual interviews, relationship satisfaction questionnaires, and observation of interaction patterns. The therapist identified key issues such as poor communication skills, unresolved past conflicts, and differing expectations regarding roles and responsibilities in the relationship.

Therapy Plan

Goals

1. Improve communication skills and foster effective conflict resolution.
2. Rebuild emotional connection and intimacy.

Intervention Strategies

1. Communication training to enhance active listening and expression of feelings without escalation.
2. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help the couple understand and respond to each other’s emotional needs.
3. Conflict resolution exercises, including role-playing and structured dialogues, to practice healthy interactions.

Frequency and Duration

Weekly 60-minutes joint therapy sessions for the first 10 months, with progress reviews every 1 month.

Results

1. The couple reported significant improvements in their communication skills, leading to fewer arguments and more constructive discussions.
2. Emotional connection and intimacy were restored, with both partners feeling more understood and supported.
3. Past conflicts were effectively addressed, reducing resentment and enhancing overall relationship satisfaction.